Friday, August 8, 2008

Jury Duty ----- did you say my name?

About 2 months ago I received a jury duty questionnaire in the mail. I wasn't given much choice, but to fill it out and send it in. I'm all about following the rules.

In the meantime, I scheduled a week of annual leave off from work to be a chaperone for Josh and Tanner's marching band camp in Delta, Utah this past week. We left on August 4th......and they will be home August 9th. A full 6 days!


About 3 weeks ago I received my jury duty summons in the mail for August 5th! YEP, right smack dab in the middle of band camp. .......OF ALL WEEKS! So I made the necessary preparations to travel home Tuesday.


It was a quick trip to Delta and back, as I ended up driving back and forth on Monday. My plan was to drive back on Tuesday night after the jury selection, as I was 99.9% sure that I would not be selected. I was feeling pretty confident.


I had to open my mouth and insert my foot, as I was the 5th juror selected out of 10 jurors.


Believe me it took about a whole hour for it to sink in, that this was really happening to me.


As we were released for lunch and given strick instructions to:

  • do not listen to the radio


  • do not read the newspaper


  • do not discuss the details of the case with ANYONE, even our spouses.


  • do not associate with the defense or prosecuting attorneys


  • do not associate with any of the families members of the defense or prosecution.


  • We couldn't even discuss the case amongst each other in the jury room.

I hopped in my van and started to make the humble phone calls that I needed to - to take care of business at home, at band camp, as work, and so forth......


Matt's first words were.........." COOOOOOOOOL!"

I drove to Subway to get a sandwich. I sat in the van for a few minutes, took a big breath and just thought to myself. My first thought is WHY DO THEY WANT ME ON THIS JURY? Of all people in that room, I honestly thought I would be excused for my law enforcement associations and especially because of Matt's history with the Sheriff's department.


The next feeling that really amazed me was.....a overwhelming feeling of humility, pride in country, and a feeling of importance. I had a duty to do.

When I first walked in those doors my feeling was "please don't choose me", but once my name was read and I knew I would be with these 10 jurors for at least 4 days.....that feeling immediately left. I quickly changed my attitude.

To have someone else's life in your hands, is monumental and overwhelming feeling that I cannot discribe.

What impressed me the most about this whole experience was the RESPECT that the judge (he always had the audience stand for us when we exited and entered the room) gave us. Next to serving in the military, being on a jury is another form of public service that we show our country.


The other 9 juror's and I quickly became acquainted. Everyone brought unique piece to the puzzle. It was difficult for us to not discuss the case amongst each other as we became good friends and we wanted to discuss our feelings of what was happening day by day. We hated to admit (in light of the court situation) we were having such a great time, as much laughter was behind our door. =)


Every morning we would assemble in a room and then a bailiff would escort us to the jury waiting room. We would put on our "jury" pin, find our notebooks and wait to be invited into the courtroom. This became a routine...and there was a lot of waiting involved.


We had some interesting things happen along the process:
  • A witness list was read to us prior to jury selection, none of us recognized any names. However, the very first witness called to the stand -- one of the juror's knew her and had to write a note to the judge. We were dismissed immediately. Not sure of the particulars, but he was able to stay as a juror.


  • about 1 hour later, one of the jurors wrote a note to the judge that he needed to make a quick trip to the bathroom to throw up! He struggled through the rest of the day, but felt better directly afterwards.


  • One of the jurors was pulled over for swerving on the road. She told the officer that was concentrating on the case and she was a juror...he let her go!


  • This story is a classic! One of the jurors was late one morning. When he finally arrived he told us that he had been rear-ended!!! But the best part of the story was that he was rear-ended by the defendants father....and the defendant was in the CAR! Oh man, we got a kick out of that one for some time.

There is much to discuss about the details of the case, but I don't feel like this is the proper forum for it...I feel that I need to be sensitive to the defendant, alleged parties or anyone related to them. I would be happy to discuss the story in person or by email if your interested.

The jury was a bit disappointed that we never were able to deliberate the case, as the Judge found the presentation of state's prosecution case to lack enough evidence to move forward. It's what they call a "direct verdict". They just didn't meet their burden of proof. The judge said that this hasn't happened in our valley for over 20 years! The defendant was found "not guilty."

As I worked through the case day by day in my head......I definitely would have came to the same conclusion. How this case ever made it through a pre-trial is beyond me!???


I have to say - this was an amazing opportunity. I would do it again in a heart beat!

I'm reading......

Breaking Dawn! I received it from Amazon.com on Wednesday. Haven't had much time or energy to read it until now. Started tonight.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Happy Birthday!

--- It's my dear sweet husband's BIRTHDAY today ---

Happy Birthday Matthew!!!

You can link to his blog through mine (Matt's big adventure) and wish him a wonderful day! Hard to believe that he's 20 years older then the day we married.....and he's definitely just as handsome. =)

Love you Honey!

Matt also posted a blog on our recent "instate vacation". Click here to read: http://mattsbigadventure.blogspot.com/2008/07/some-things-old-some-things-new.html

Monday, July 28, 2008

Fun with Lycra

Last week, my work had a party as the 2008 season of the Old Lyric Repertory Company is coming to a close. We had a great turn out with about 50 people, great food and a lots of fun. Tanner, Landon and I went to the party. Matt and Josh had other commitments.

So what can you do with 5 yards of Lycra? I'll show ya!



Landon was on the phone calling fabric stores the very next day trying to find the best deal for 5 yards of Lycra.


Wouldn't this be fun at our next family gathering?

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

choosing between Right and Right.....

About 2 months ago I bought tickets for the boys and I to attend a musical theatre show at the Opera House (no, no....not a REAL opera....just the opera house) called "Into the Woods". We've anxiously been waiting to see the show.

We also have had a little family vacation planned over the 24th Utah Pioneer Holiday weekend. We were to leave Wednesday the 23rd.

About a week ago we received a phone call that Landon was chosen to play on a local All-Star Baseball team. Guess when the playoffs where? Yes you guessed it..... the night of our musical as well as the first evening of our planned family vacation.

How do you choose between Right.....and......Right!!!!??

We juggled our schedule to accomodate the playoff games as we felt this was a great opportunity for Landon....and I GAVE AWAY our musical tickets to a sweet family that lives near us. It actually felt wonderful to find a new home for the tickets. =) We also had a great family get-a-way, which I will blog about later.

Here are a few pictures from Landon's playoff games. This was the first time in some years that the North Park All-Star team was put together. They were the best of the best of local teams. They played well together and played their best! Landon made some great hits, had a couple of stike outs, rbi's....and made some great catches out in right and left field.




Way to go Baseball Boy!

Friday, July 18, 2008

The road less traveled

Remember one of my fitness goals is to be able to ride my bike to work without stopping, which includes going up a steep steep hill for approx two blocks. pant, pant, jiggly legs....

Nevermind that Landon came up to my work yesterday to each lunch with me and he did it in 15 minutes....without stopping! Whatever boy wonder Landon! Sure show your Mom up there dear one.

I haven't rode my bike to work this week, but I have been riding my bike in 5 to 10 mile little road trips. Yesterday I managed to make my body run 1 mile. progress? I dunno....it hurts a little too much today.

Will I keep going???.....definitely. It's gotta hurt a little to reap the rewards.

I decided to take a few pictures of the bike road less traveled (lately) so that you'll all have empathy in my cause......Or cheer me on!!!


From about 3/4 mile away from the Hill

Getting closer...... can you see it?

ooooohhhh....my yegs hurt already!

Hello steep hill....have we met?

Conquer!

Once up the hill then you are on the main campus. Here are a few pictures of the outside of the Chase Fine Arts Center where I work.

Looking southeast

West side of the building......hi facilities guy!

New concert hall that was built about 2 years ago. It was all built with donations! It's kind of an odd looking building from the outside, but inside it is amazing!

The front doors where I walk into every day



The outdoor court yard, where I have lunch sometimes! It's nice out there in the summer.

Hope you enjoyed the tour!

Monday, July 14, 2008

Matt saves the DAY

Yahooooo!

Matt was able to save my Cedar City pictures from the Shakespearean Festival. I didn't get pictures of all the apprenti, but I did get the majority. =)

Jeremy, JR, Landon, Jessica and ChristianBric, JR and Landon

These two (JR and Landon) might as well have been brothers!!

Landon with "Bill" (that is what the kids called WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE!) It's a bit irreverent, I know.